Bullying is a very
common topic in today’s news and in schools. Some surveys show that 15-20% of
students are bullied at some point in their school career (Shane). This
bullying affects the learning environment for not only the students that are
bullied but the entire school. It makes it hard for students to learn and
perform the way teachers want and expect them to.
Even if students aren’t being bullied witnessing the act
of bullying can have a very negative effect on students. It makes them feel as
though the school isn’t a safe place where they can be comfortable. When
students don’t feel comfortable in a classroom they are less likely to
participate and play an active role in the classroom. These students are also
more likely to cause problem behaviors or shut down because they do not feel
safe.
While many schools are taking an active stance on
preventing and educating about bullying, Shane believes that many teachers are
ignoring the act and/or the signs of bullying. Some may think it is a phase
that students go through or may be a rite of passage. Some of the signs of
bullying that should draw teacher’s attention are anxiety, visiting the nurse
frequently, bruises, decreased performance in school, sadness and avoidance of
friends, and unexplained bruises (Shane).
Shane provides some strategies for dealing with bullies
and preventing bullying. He believes the most important thing is to act
immediately. Some teachers may wait to report the act or step in, believing
that students should stand up for themselves. His reasoning is that most
bullies are bigger than their victim and the victim is too afraid to stand up
to the bully (Shane). I think that it is important for teachers to acknowledge
the student but I also think that if a student goes running to a teacher about
every little thing that the student might get picked on more because of it.
Shane also suggests talking privately with the bully. He
says you should find out what the bully is trying to gain and their reason for
bullying. You should let the bully know that the behavior will not be tolerated
and you will monitor them closely and follow up with consequences if it happens
again (Shane). I think this strategy is a good idea, especially if you are able
to get the student to open up and share what is driving them to bully others.
Sometimes it is a cry for help or attention and if you can solve the problem
the behavior may diminish.
When disciplining the bully it is important to remember
you want to deter the actions, not humiliate them. Shane suggests taking away
certain classroom privileges and keeping the bully from places and activities
where they have bullied other students in the past. He also suggests including
the parents in making a plan from preventing the behavior from reoccurring
(Shane). I think it is important to keep the bully’s dignity intact. If the
bully feel’s humiliated and disrespected they may continue to bully out of
spite to make themselves feel powerful again.
Another method Shane uses is helping students that are
isolated become involved with their peers. Bullies tend to target students that
are isolated and don’t have a strong peer group to support them. If a teacher
can help a student become part of a group, that student will be less likely to
be targeted. Reinforcing positive behavior and relationships is also important
in classrooms. When students see they can be rewarded for treating others
kindly and with respect they are more likely to keep displaying that behavior.
Knowing how to effectively deal with bullies in a
classroom is important so that all students feel safe and comfortable in the
classroom. This promotes an environment conducive to learning and allows
students to actively participate.
References
Shore, Ken. (n.d.). Classroom problem solver: Bullying behavior. Retrieved from
http://www.educationworld.com/a_curr/shore/shore061.shtml
Hi Alice, the topic of bullying is huge, and affects so any students. I believe that often teachers are intimidated by bullies as well. not in the same way that students are, but if they address the bullying they may fear it will make matters worse. I agree that it is so important to address the issue quickly and privately. In any discipline situation, it is important to address the behavior rather then the person.
ReplyDeleteWhat are your thoughts on making classroom rules about safety and bullying at the beginning of the year and assuring the potential bully knows the consequences of such actions? Do you think that will lower the occurrences of bullying in the classroom?
I think that is a great idea. When a rule is made then your stance on bullying is clear to the students and they will know it won't be tolerated. I think posting consequences as well or at least talking about them at the beginning of the year would be helpful so that students know what will happen if they do bully.
DeleteI think that getting to the root of the bullying is important, too. You have to find out why the bully is doing the bullying, and then like the article said, don't humiliate them.
ReplyDeleteI think it's hard to stop a behavior or prevent it from happening if you don't know what is causing it.
DeleteIt is sad that bullying is such a big problem in todays schools.I agree with Doug, it is important to get to the root of the bullying. Find out why the bully is doing the bullying.Help the student, do not humiliate them.
ReplyDeleteI think that humiliating a student will most likely lead them to want to retaliate, either to the teacher or another student that turned them in. Finding the cause of the issue I think is the most important way to decrease the rate of bullying in schools today.
DeleteThis was a good article. It is never ok to bully a student. I thought the it was interesting that the article stated that a bully was always a bigger kid. This is not always true and in fact some of the smaller kids may actually be worse bullies as they have developed this type of behavior to protect themselves.
ReplyDeleteI think even if some bullies are smaller than their targets the target still is weaker or doesn't have the confidence in themselves to stand up to the bully.
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